“Claire Ruth: The Best Thing That Ever Happened to Babe Ruth,” and  “Was Claire the Cause of the Babe Ruth-Lou Gehrig Feud?”

“Claire Ruth: The Best Thing That Ever Happened to Babe Ruth,” and “Was Claire the Cause of the Babe Ruth-Lou Gehrig Feud?”



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Claire Ruth:

The Best Thing That Ever Happened to Babe Ruth

and 

Was Claire Ruth the Cause of the Babe Ruth-Lou Gehrig Feud?




 

“But she had to be [strong-willed] to keep Daddy in tow. And she did it in a way that Daddy didn’t mind. -Julia Ruth Stevens, speaking of her mother, Claire

Here’s something a bit different. We all know a lot about the Babe, but I thought I’d share some interesting information about his second wife, Claire Hodgson, which I picked up from their daughter Julia Ruth Stevens’ website. Also, I’ll shed some light on the purported role that Claire played in the storied feud between the Babe and the great Iron Horse, Lou Gehrig. 

Claire Hodgson Ruth

Claire Hodgson was a dark-haired beauty with an engaging southern drawl, who had come to New York from her home in Georgia. At 14, she had married a Southern gentleman almost 20 years her senior. The marriage produced a baby girl, Julia, but it didn’t last. This gave Claire, now a beautiful divorcee, an opportunity to escape to the big city to seek a career as a fashion model. While in New York, the attractive Southern belle, now suddenly available, soon caught the attention of a Yankee ballplayer well on his way to becoming a national sensation. His name was George Herman “Babe” Ruth.

Claire and Babe’s romance was an open secret for five or six years, but marriage appeared out of the question for Ruth. For one thing, he already was married to Helen Woodford, a coffee-shop waitress he had met in Boston during his playing days with the Red Sox. For another, though Babe and Helen long had been living apart, Babe had been raised at St. Mary’s Industrial School in Baltimore and was at least nominally a Catholic. For him, divorce was out of the question.

All that changed suddenly in 1929 when Helen was tragically killed in a fire. The house she shared with a man (who neighbors assumed was her husband) caught fire and burned to the ground. Adopted daughter, Dorothy, away at boarding school, was spared.

In the featured photo, we see Claire and the Babe along with daughter Julia. The photo is from the cover of Julia’s book, Babe Ruth, A Daughter’s Portrait.

The death of his first wife removed a major obstacle for Babe, and he was now free to marry Claire. The couple tied the knot just three months later. A year after that, the blended family formally merged into one when Babe adopted Julia and Claire adopted Dorothy. The new family actually was considerably larger. For most of Babe and Claire’s marriage, the couple also shared their New York apartment with Claire’s mother and two of her brothers.

Ruth had been a major carouser during his first marriage, driving his wife Helen to nervous exhaustion with his drunken binges and infidelity. But that changed when Claire entered his life. Gone were the days when Ruth tipped $100 for a ham sandwich. Claire took over the household finances, limiting him to the $50 checks she wrote when he needed pocket money. 

Some of Ruth’s friends resented Claire’s tightfisted control over the Babe. But daughter Julia Ruth Stevens says her father never did. “In a lot of ways, she was rather strong-willed,” she said of Claire, adding:

“But she had to be to keep Daddy in tow. And she did it in a way that Daddy didn’t mind. If she would say, ‘I don’t think we should do such and such,’ he wouldn’t argue. He’d say, ‘All right.’ I think he felt she was a better manager of the house, social life, and things like that than he was.”

The Ruth-Gehrig Feud

If Claire took over the Babe’s social life, she also played a role in his famous feud with teammate Lou Gehrig. The two Yankees icons were almost polar opposites: Gehrig, a frugal mama’s boy (before his marriage to Eleanor Twitchell), normally in bed by 10:00; and Ruth, the night owl, and notorious curfew breaker. But they were close friends through the 1920s forming the heart of the Yankees’ famed “Murderers’ Row,” along with Tony Lazzeri and Bob Meusel. They even teamed up on off-season barnstorming tours.

Away from the ballpark, Gehrig’s mother, Christina, took a liking to the Babe’s daughter from his first marriage, Dorothy. Mrs. Gehrig often invited little Dorothy to spend afternoons with her at the Gehrig home. One of Dorothy’s overnight visits led to a fight that turned the families against each other for years.

The little girl arrived one afternoon with worn, old play clothes. Julia Stevens recalls that Dorothy had packed the things herself while her mother was out of town. But for Ma Gehrig, it was just another example of Claire Ruth’s favored treatment of Julia and her neglect of her adopted daughter. Julia Stevens recalled:

“Mrs. Gehrig said, ‘Claire Ruth’s daughter [Julia], she goes to the ballgames in silks and satins, and poor little Dorothy has nothing but rags to wear.’ When Mother heard about that, she said, ‘Tell Lou’s mother to keep her big mouth shut.’ And that was that. Lou wouldn’t stand for anyone speaking ill about his mother.”

It took Gehrig’s fatal illness in the late 1930s to reconcile the families. Later, Claire admitted that she had overreacted, apologetically accepting full responsibility for the rift between the two players—which, many contend, had numerous other causes besides the one indicated by Claire.

Following the Babe’s death, Claire Ruth became a fixture at Yankee games for many years. Before her death on October 25, 1976, she lived to see two of Babe Ruth’s most famous records broken: his single-season record of 60 home runs, broken by Roger Maris in 1961; and his career record of 714 home runs, broken by Hank Aaron in 1974. Claire was quoted as saying: “The Babe loved baseball so very much. I know he was pulling for Hank Aaron to break his record.”

I think it’s a fair question to ask what would have become of George Herman Ruth without the taming influence of his wife Claire, who added much-needed stability to his life and gave him the family life he had lacked and so desperately desired? So let’s take a moment to shine our baseball spotlight on the woman who was undoubtedly the best thing that ever happened to Babe Ruth. Let’s salute Claire Hodgson Ruth. 

Gary Livacari 

Photo Credits: Featured photo and others from Babe Ruth, A Daughter’s Portrait, by Julia Ruth Stevens; all others from Google search

Information: Excerpts edited from Babe Ruth, A Daughter’s Portrait, by Julia Ruth Stevens

 

I'm a baseball historian who also enjoys writing. My forte is identifying ballplayers in old photos, and my special interest is the Dead Ball Era.

9 Comments

  1. Bill Schaefer · April 28, 2021 Reply

    Claire was a gem, alright, Gary. Very much enjoyed the essay and insight into the Gehrig, Ruth rift.
    Among other causes of the falling out might have been the Babe’s greater magnetism re the opposite sex. Didn’t The Bambino cut Lou’s time with more than one female?
    A couple of quotes you’re probably familiar with about Ruth that I like:

    “To understand him you had to understand this: he wasn’t human.” Jumpin’ Joe Duggan

    “If I’d tried for them dinky singles I could’ve batted about six hundred,”

    Best, TOB

  2. Dave Bancroft · April 28, 2021 Reply

    I remember reading an account of an exhibition baseball trip to Japan on an ocean liner, where it was insinuated that Ruth and Eleanor Gehrig may have actually had a one night stand. If this actually happened, it would be a pretty good motive for a feud, if not worse. As Bill says above, Lou was probably a little dull, compared to the wild Babe. And some girls do go for the bad boys.

    Also, Claire Ruth once said about Ty Cobb, “When I lived in Georgia, I knew Ty Cobb very well.” Draw your own conclusions, but that could be a reason why early on, the Babe hated Ty so much.

  3. Bill Schaefer · April 28, 2021 Reply

    Also read about the possible one night stand you mention, Dave. Circumstances seemed to point that way and Ruth seldom passed up an opportunity.

    I’d like to think Claire’s statement about Cobb was innocent…but it is loaded with innuendo.

  4. Paul Doyle · May 14, 2021 Reply

    Hmm. I thought Six inch Nails was the name of a band.

  5. Hal Pritzker · August 21, 2021 Reply

    Claire’s 1959 book, “The Babe and I”, ghost-written by Bill Slocum, gets into the Gehrig feud. Big mouth Mrs. Gehrig indeed caused it by her less than subtle insinuations regarding Claire’s attitude toward Julia—her daughter—and adopted one, Dorothy. It is understandable why Claire strongly resented Mrs. Gehrig’s totally inaccurate comments, and—despite the passage of time—shouldn’t have, in any way, apologized. Or minimized her hurt and resentment. Mrs. Gehrig basked in Lou’s baseball celebrity status. She was, as the Italian slang word says, a “a balaboosta.” A know-it-all. In other words, a real pain in the butt.

    • Gary Livacari · August 21, 2021 Reply

      Haha! Thanks Hal, I’m Italian and I think you’re exactly right!

      • Hal Pritzker · July 13, 2022 Reply

        I was being funny. “Balaboosta” is not Italian. It is Yiddish. The meaning, though, is the same.

        I sometimes leave a scene by reminding people: “Remember the words of Babe Ruth…who told his wife in bed, ‘Nobody hits a homer every time.’

        Or Mickey Rooney, who said: “Are my bermuda shorts ready?”

        Or Mark Twain, who said: “When you find yourself in hot water…just take a bath.”

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